Poker: Giving Respect to the Game
Because of the desire to win the big money pots, Poker players, especially the new ones, forget some fundamental facts, namely that it is a game played by gentlemen and therefore has certain rules and customs that should be followed by everyone. For a newcomer, it would be worthwhile to learn some of these concepts.
One of the best ways that you can show respect to Poker is by showing respect for yourself. For a while the image of the game was that it was played in seedy bars in the back alleys, the players themselves being hustlers or crooks. Such is not the case anymore, as anyone who has been watching TV lately will attest.
For this reason, it is important that when you come to play you should be dressed properly and groomed. This does not mean that you should show up at a Poker room in a tuxedo, but at least be presentable.
Table image is important, but how you conduct yourself off the table is also essential. Therefore avoid any confrontations with the other players, or worse, with the casino staff. If you have a problem or question concerning the just concluded game, you just state your point calmly and factually. Remember, these people are part of the game too. Without them, you would have nowhere to play in.
As for the game itself, you should make it a point to abide by the rules; report any flash cards that you see. When you purchase a stack, do not go for the short buy in. Doing so means there will almost always be an all in and will disrupt the flow of the game.
Do not make any snide remarks towards the dealer or another player. You should also avoid throwing your cards on the table after you lose a hand. That is unacceptable behavior.
Remember, Poker is a game, and someone has to win or lose. Do your best to come out on top, but if you do not, then be gracious enough to accept the result. If you cannot stand losing, then perhaps you should stick to play money Poker.
Some of these things may be difficult for a new Poker player to do, especially following a bad loss. However it should and must be done. It is simply a matter of keeping the integrity of the game, and also giving respect to others and to yourself.